For more than eight years now I've woken up every day and had a headache. Eight years is a long time for my paltry memory to reach back, so I can't remember if it would be there when I opened my eyes right at the beginning. But in the last 5 or 6 years, it generally has.For a few bleary moments, approximately a second and a half, when I first open my eyes, my mind adjusts to the situation, and the context in which I base myself. This context of young woman with constant headache. Often, unless I am instantly hit with an inescapable thud of pain, those few bleary moments are a few bleary moments of freedom. It's as though my headache is waiting in the wings, a Pantomime villain, and my temples, my neck, my skull, my nerves and blood vessels are all about to join in a chorus of "he's behind you!"
And then out from the wings he leaps, cackling evilly and all the pain arrives trailing behind him like small minions. The headache orchestrates the minions, directing them to where he needs them most - lying across my forehead like a wet flannel, resting in my temple like mini Buddhas, ohming a tingle of agony.
All this in those few bleary moments.
I thought my headache was getting better. But this morning, as with yesterday too, my pantomime villain was barely containing himself to the wings before I opened my eyes.
And at 2am he snuck his new favourite pal in too: hello nausea, you sneaky bastard. I thought I'd had enough of you.
When my alarm went at 7am, they were both there. Picnicking. Dining out on my nerves and blood vessels and pushing on certain bits and pressing on others. Feeling nausea lying in my throat; my headache lolling around above my eyebrows.
Dine away, villain. Push and press away. The context into which I awake everyday might include you, but it isn't solely about you. I am more than my pain. Good always defeats evil. Go back to the shadows with a boo and a hiss. You won't be missed.
