On my last full day in Tasmania, I emerged from MONA to heat. Actual sunshine, and warmth with it. Standing on the jetty awaiting the arrival of the ferry back to Hobart, I watched the water lapping over the rocks. Again and again and again.
And my mind felt as dark as the water surrounding me.
I imagined myself putting down my handbag, taking off my trainers, removing my sunglasses, and hopping lightly over the glass barrier, plunging into the water. But the water by the jetty is rocky, so I wouldn't just plunge down into the dark, shivery depths; I would fall hard and fast against solid stone.
And I imagined for a moment: what if I did that, and my headaches went away? If I smashed myself against them, would they correct this abomination inside me? Would it die? Would it finally subside and disappear as I have dreamt of it doing countless times?
This headache is like those waves. They break over me again, and again, countless times, never ending.
And I am promised salvation by those that never deliver it. I put my faith and trust in them, and they never deliver the freedom they promise me. It's a wonder my trust isn't used up, that the well of hope hasn't dried up.
It's still full enough to provide me with tears.
On Tuesday, I went most of the day with a headache. A headache I pushed and prodded at, tried to breathe through, that made my head, and my soul, feel heavy. At 6pm I took painkillers. And by 7pm the 8/10 scale headache I had pushed through all day was down to a 3. I could engage with life again.
If I could, I would take painkillers every day. But I am on medication designed to free me from a dependence on them. Frequent painkiller self-medication can and does result in medication overuse headaches and then I'm adding another resident to the can of worms that is my head. And sometimes when I take painkillers, they only take the edge off - taking a 9 down to a 6. But I'm willing to bet anyone else's 9 is my 6 in the first place. I tolerate the pain because what the hell else can I do?
How can a person thrive when every beautiful, amazing, incredible experience is marred by a constant agony?
If a bird or animal in the wild is too ill to carry out it's everyday tasks, it dies.
And yet I live.
And yet I live and there is so much left to see. I am slightly nonplussed by the ancient rainforest and bush of Australia, having seen it a fair few times. But I live for the day I step into the wilderness and am overawed by the sheer scale and beauty this earth is capable of producing.
And yet I live and there is so much left to do. Exploring new places, learning about new cultures. There are mountains to climb, though the first is within me it seems.
Is the answer to ending this abomination inside the very organ causing me such agony? Could my brain hold the key to what is torturing it? Can the healing only come from me?
I am haunted by what was, what is, and what may be. I do not want to live a life where the moments I savour most are marred by pain, or the moments of freedom from that pain are brief, as though they never happened in the first place.
